The Do’s and Don’ts of Summer Custody Schedules

Summer break can allow for great opportunities for parents who are divorced to spend quality time with their children that is less interrupted with school schedules and normal activities. Summertime is especially important for those who do not have equal or substantial parenting time with their children during the school year. Below are a few tips to take full advantage of summer breaks.

Do call your family attorney

It is vitally important to have a signed record of your summer custody schedule. Submitting this to a judge will ensure that the schedule you agreed upon is enforceable. Some parents struggle with the idea of “giving up” their child for more extended periods of time during the summer. Call your family attorney for help and suggestions on your summer custody arrangement.

Do plan ahead

It is important to ensure you are compliant with the Texas Standard Possession Order guidelines if you happen to be subject to one. There are specific deadlines to extend summer parenting time. Planning for your summer schedule and desired extended period with your child is important to stay compliant with your arrangements.

Don’t talk about legal matters with your child

While you may be frustrated with your custody arrangement, your frustrations and angst should not be communicated to, or towards, your child. Having more time with your child gives you the ability to make more memories together, create stronger bonds and really enjoy each other. Don’t waste that time complaining about things the child cannot control. 

Don’t do business as usual

If possible, take some time off work, don’t keep it business as usual. Spend time with your child and don’t leave them to their own devices during your time with them. It can be tempting to keep up your normal routine and schedule, but using your time with your child to your advantage will create a better bond. 

If you find yourself struggling to come to an agreement on the summer plans for your children, contact your family law attorney to help you clarify your rights and enforce your rights.