Can Social Media Impact a Custody Agreement?
Today, individuals of all ages are connected through media sites. While this helps keep you connected to old friends and family members that live in different cities, states, and even counties, these media platforms are not always beneficial. For those in a custody arrangement, the details and usage of social media could negatively impact the outcomes for one or both parents. Additionally, the children involved could also be harmed in the process, especially if it impacts their custody. While social media can be beneficial, it is important to note ways to reduce the possibility of a co-parent’s presence on social media from harming a custody agreement or any other legal matters.
It’s not ‘all about the Benjamins”
First, co-parents should not use their social media sites as a platform to discuss or disclose their financial situation. This information could be used against the individual when it comes to property division, alimony, child support, or other divorce issues addressed in a divorce decree.
Don’t be insensitive
Next, divorcing parents should use caution when sending texts and emails to one another or when sending messages with sensitive content related to the divorce. These messages could be used against a parent in court, resulting in an unfavorable custody decision. While it is wise to have everything in writing, be careful what everything entails.
Be mindful of what you post
Finally, use discretion and caution when posting pictures on social media sites. The date, time, location, and whether a child was there could all be factors used against you in a court of law. Although it might be impulsive to just delete your social media accounts, taking this drastic step during dissolution could be considered destruction of evidence. Divorcing parents should always exercise discretion when using social media sites during and after a divorce.
If you are unsure of what is OK to post and what is not, seeking guidance early and often will be vital to your case.